Entering your very first golf competitions can be a nerve-racking process whether you know others attending the day or not.
From arrival, to standing on the first tee, to mingling with strangers after the golf, all of this can be stressful. However, this doesn’t have to be the case.
Here’s a few tips in order for you to enjoy your day more…
1 – Arrive Early…
This will allow you to get familiar with club and course layout, ensures you are not putting on yourself under any undue pressure (we’ve all been late for tee time and it rarely converts to a good score!)
2 – Make yourself known to the organizer…
Firstly, this is good manners. However, by doing this you are giving yourself the opportunity of knowing more about the golf event’s time table and this in turn will allow you to plan your day.
Thus allowing for Putting Practice and introductions.
Most organizers, will be happy to introduce to other attendees, or at the very least your playing partners for the day.
3 – First tee nerves…
Much has been written about this over the years but the bottom line is don’t worry about it. We’ve all witnessed the Tour Pro’s hook their first drive into the long stuff or worse lose a ball off the tee, so don’t be embarrassed.
It’s how you finish, not how you start, and most of your players partners’ first response will be one of sympathy rather than ridicule.
We recently saw someone take 5 off the first tee and still finish with 38 pts.
Much has been written about this over the years but the bottom line is don’t worry about it. We’ve all witnessed the Tour Pro’s hook their first drive into the long stuff or worse lose a ball off the tee, so don’t be embarrassed.
It’s how you finish, not how you start, and most of your players partners’ first response will be one of sympathy rather than ridicule.
We recently saw someone take 5 off the first tee and still finish with 38 pts.
4 – Playing with strangers…
There is nothing worse than playing golf with ‘a mute’. After all golf is a social game. Ask you playing partners where they live, what they do for a living, when they took up golf?
Rest assured, 99 people out of 100 will be happy to talk about themselves, it’s everyone’s favourite subject.
In addition, in our experience this not only breaks the ice but who knows, you may actually have something in common.
This can also deflect the spotlight from you, as you get to know your 4 ball.
5 – After Golf…
Assuming you have not broken any rules, offended your 4ball with inappropriate jokes or talked on their back-swing, its higher likely that you playing partners will expect to share a drink with you after the round.
In addition, most of the time it will be assumed you will also be sharing their table.
That’s said, manners cost nothing so if you do know anyone else, ask them if you can join their table.
Assuming you have not broken any rules, offended your 4ball with inappropriate jokes or talked on their back-swing, its higher likely that you playing partners will expect to share a drink with you after the round.
In addition, most of the time it will be assumed you will also be sharing their table.
That’s said, manners cost nothing so if you do know anyone else, ask them if you can join their table.
If they are already seated when you get in, don’t be disturbed, just mention to the organizer that you know a limited a number of people and that you’d be grateful if he could find you another group.
Even if you are meeting these guys or gals for the first time, be aware that you already have ‘the course’ in common, so if you are stuck from conversation, its higher likely they will be more than happy to tell you about their round.
Finally, we do understand joining a golf event or charity day for the very first time can be daunting, but put your ego (that’s all it is!) to one side and make an effort.
Who knows, you new golfing partner might be waiting for you to make the introductions and if you make friends now, next time, you won’t be the stranger!